Gerard makes it clear that he won't answer stupid questions, and he doesn't like it when journalists always ask about his hair and other 'silly questions'. So the journalist felt quite awkward when she asked a question about Gerard's marriage plans. [He announced the engagement a week ago, his brother Mikey is on his honeymoon and could unfortunately not be at Hove, so it seemed like a relevant question], and the reply was:

- Actually, I'm not engaged anymore.. That's just something that happens.

>Hi
>
>I felt I had to write to you guys to allay some of your fears regarding the
>rumours and speculation surrounding Gerard and Eliza and the future of the
>band.
>
>This is the only time I will ever post. I will not be able to respond to
>your comments or enter into discussion or debate on what I'm about to say.
>
>We are aware that this is one of the most popular message boards for MCR
>fans and we know you guys are the most dedicated and loyal fans in the
>world. It saddens me to see such division amongst the fans over one woman.
>If it's any consolation, you guys are not the only ones affected. She is
>merely tolerated by both band and crew. Believe me, nothing anyone can say
>will change his mind. She's been the cause of numerous conflicts and while
>we don't have to like it, we have to accept it, at least for the forseeable
>future.
>
>From day one this woman has had a hidden agenda - her manipulation knows no
>bounds. Some of you may find this difficult to believe but I assure you I
>have personally witnessed the two sides of this woman. Her so-called 'good
>deeds' are nothing more than PR exercises for his benefit. But he does not
>see what goes on behind closed doors.
>
>We have tried to draw his attention to her blatant self-promotion and diva
>demands. This is a prime example of love being blind. His feelings for her
>do run very deep. Her feelings for him, however, are questionable at best.
>Many people believe, including myself, that he is being used as nothing
>more than a stepping stone. It's disheartening to see someone you care
>about and have worked with for a very long time change as a person,
>becoming more detached and causing the group dynamic to change as a result.
>
>There have been conflicts and differences of opinions and compromises have
>had to be made She does not accompany the band on the European legs of the
>tour. Since being on this current European leg, he seems much happier which
>suggest she doesn't make him as happy as he thinks.
>
>Despite being asked more than once to remain discreet, she blatantly
>disregards his wish to keep his personal life private by continually
>fuelling the internet hype. The band has always been about the music and
>the fans. This will not change. MCR have never endorsed any type of clique
>as it encourages and promotes the kind of high school mentality that MCR
>have always fought against.
>
>Your continued support is appreciated and rest assured this woman will have
>no adverse affect on the band and the music. For obvious reasons I am
>remaining anonymous.
>
>Eliza, we know you trawl these message boards and you probably know who I
>am - but I'd like to see you try and prove it!!!